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How it works with you

How it works with you

This page answers three questions: how it differs from ordinary tools, where your data lives, and what we promise you.

How it's different

It remembers content, not dates

Both remind you to contact someone — the difference is whether it knows what to say.

CapabilityContacts / card appsReminder toolsSoMate
Proactive—Reminds on a scheduleProposes every day
Persistent—One-off remindersRelationship memory across months and years
MemoryStores fields onlyDoesn't remember contentRemembers what you said
Judgment—Only counts daysExplains why today and why this person
Two-way—One-way notificationsUpdates when you reply
Business-aligned——Speaks to your business profile

We're not building a “better reminder”. Reminders only know ninety days have passed, not what was said — so they can't decide who to reach first today.

Where data lives

Three trust tiers

Your choice, not ours. All three tiers give the same companionship — the only difference is how data is hosted.

L0 · Fully local

 

  • Your data never leaves your computer
  • We hold none of your contacts
  • Digital card and holder run on your device
  • Free

No matching, no daily picks

L1 · Local + derived into the pool

Recommended

  • The original cards stay with you
  • Only tags (industry, decision level, needs) enter the pool
  • Name, phone and email stored only as irreversible hashes
  • Matching, daily picks, MCP and reply follow-up

Core member (recommended)

C · Fully hosted in the cloud

 

  • Original files held by us
  • We OCR your cards and research backgrounds for you
  • For members without their own setup who want it handled
  • All other benefits same as L1

Core member

Privacy promise

Four lines we won't cross

Principle 1

Don't reveal others' identities

Member cards show no names, full company names or contact details. Exchanges require mutual consent, and both sides leave a consent record.

Principle 2

Don't give A's card to B

Your card holder never merges into the platform network. What you put in belongs only to you.

Principle 3

No outward action without confirmation

AI can draft and suggest, but sending, referring and revealing always require your confirmation. This applies to every connected AI agent too.

Principle 4

Don't use it to serve others

Your business profile and conversation memory serve only you; export and deletion are always available.

FAQ

You might be wondering

Will SoMate email or refer on my behalf?
No. It drafts, suggests and reminds, but every outward action needs your confirmation. MCP follows the same rule — agents can query, not act for you.
How is it different from reminder tools?
Reminder tools only know “90 days since you last met”. SoMate remembers “what they said and what you were looking for” — so it reasons from content, not the calendar.
Will my data train someone else's model?
No. Your business profile and conversation memory serve only you.
What happens to my data if I stop?
You can request export and deletion. L0 members' data was never on our servers to begin with.
Presented by: Presented by AIX Society (aixsociety.com). SoMate is a product of the society, drawing on its existing AI adoption method and partner network.

Look first, decide later

Applying isn't a commitment. See the daily picks first — continue if they're useful.

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